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High Voltage — Are You Getting “Lost”?


LostI’ve really enjoyed the ABC drama “Lost.” What do you think of it?
I’m hooked, too. For the benefit of nonfans, “Lost” is a fascinating sci-fi mystery, sort of “Survivor” meets “The X-Files.” A jet gets ripped apart in midair, stranding a diverse cross section of people on a remote island where they have to learn to get along. Then really weird stuff starts happening. Are they in an alternate reality? Part of an experiment? Or are they stuck in some tropical purgatory, forced to make peace with their pasts?

Each week we learn more about the individual castaways. Flashbacks show us the hunger in their souls, unresolved family issues, past sins and what led each to get on Oceanic Flight 815. But “Lost” is more than just intricate character studies and a labyrinth of clues to their whereabouts. I see the show as a weekly reminder that we can make snap judgments about a person without knowing her whole story. Jesus knows everyone’s story — flashbacks and all — and loves us all anyway. Every person we meet, no matter what his background, deserves and needs to be loved with the love of Jesus.

Of course, TV is all about ratings. There’s no telling what might crop up on “Lost” from week to week. We’ve already run into disappointing language, violence and a few sexual situations, but they’ve been the exception, not the rule. Should that change and the Holy Spirit tells us to walk away, we have to be willing to do it no matter how invested in the story we might be.

I like listening to hard rock music. What do you think of Staind’s latest CD, Chapter V?
Pretty much the same thing I thought about chapters I through IV. Staind’s social conscience is above average for a metal band, but profanity is a big spoiler. Like the band’s past two projects, Chapter V hit No. 1. And once again lead singer Aaron Lewis shares his fears, questions, convictions and psychoses with a vulnerability that I really respect. What’s missing amid all that transparency is hope.

When Break the Cycle came out in 2001, Lewis said of that disc, “It’s finally like I’m seeing the light [at the end of] a 28-year-old tunnel.” You wouldn’t know it from Chapter V. A few positive lines can’t overcome the darkness, dysfunction and a handful of f-words that earned it a warning label for explicit lyrics. Staind is consistent. I just wish the band’s messages were consistently stronger.

Rap/Hip-Hop Alternatives
If you’re into this style of music, but want to honor God with your music choices. Here are a few options.

1. KJ-52, Behind the Musik (A Boy Named Jonah) (Bec)

2. tobyMac, Welcome to Diverse City (Forefront)

3. 3 the God Way, self-titled (True Life)


This article appeared in Brio magazine in February 2006. Copyright © 2006 Focus on the Family. All rights reserved. International copyright secured.

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