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Ask Dr. Paul — Warning: Girl PMSing


teen girlMy mom says PMS is not real. It's just an excuse for girls to be emotional. Is PMS real?
While any girl can use PMS as an excuse for being irritable or "emotional," for many women this is a real problem. About mid-cycle they have a definite hormone swing, which can build until the onset of the actual menstruation or period. About seven to 14 days prior to the period, symptoms such as bloating, food cravings, irritability, anxiety or, in some cases, depression can be present. When these symptoms are added to the possibility of premenstrual cramping and pain, PMS can be especially bothersome.

Various herbal and prescription medications have been tested for this condition with varying success. If your symptoms are making it difficult for you to function, you should schedule an appointment with your doctor or gynecologist (a physician who specializes in the care of women).

I have a problem with both constipation and diarrhea. I never know what to expect! I also have a lot of gas. What's going on?
It's impossible to make an accurate diagnosis without more information and a proper examination. However, it sounds like you may have a condition known as Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). IBS is sometimes difficult to diagnose because no simple test is available. It's usually suspected based upon medical history and elimination of other causes of constipation or diarrhea.

No one knows for certain what causes IBS, but it may be related to anxiety or stress. It may also be related to intolerance to certain foods. Bottom line, many illnesses may cause either constipation or diarrhea, so see your doctor. Once more serious possibilities can be ruled out, you can safely concentrate on dietary measures and deal with emotional issues, if necessary. In some cases, this problem may be controlled by prescription medication.

I am only 14, and my hair is falling out! I have noticed a little bald spot. What could be wrong?
Hair loss, also known as alopecia, can result from many causes. Some hair loss is normal and expected. However, a common cause of alopecia results from stress, but it may also be due to medical reasons such as excessive dryness of the scalp or other skin-related conditions, hormone imbalances (particularly thyroid), nutritional deficits and infection. Thus, it would be wise for you to schedule an appointment with your doctor.


This article appeared in Brio magazine in May 2006. Copyright © 2006 Focus on the Family. All rights reserved. International copyright secured.

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