1.
The coolest girl in your
class is throwing a costume party, and a bunch of your
gal pals decide to dress as pop stars (i.e. Britney
Spears, Christina Aguilera, etc.) You decide to
a. hit the mall and search for something “steamy.”
b. go in a costume that won’t be revealing, even if that
means doing your own thing.
c. find the most non-revealing, but still sexy outfit.
2. Are you angry at the fact
that you’re not allowed
to wear whatever
you want in order to protect your brothers in Christ?
a. Sometimes. I don’t understand why I have to dress
appropriately, but I still feel obligated to do so.
b. Yes. I’m upset because it seems like I’ve no freedom
of choice.
c. No. I understand that I need to put others above my
own interests.
3. How would you describe
your crush?
a. Cute, fun, nice
b. Hot, sexy, fun to flirt with
c. Godly, moral character, complementary personality
4. How do you think about
and act around guys?
a. In general, my thoughts, actions, words and
appearance glorify Christ and honor the opposite sex.
b. I know what is attractive to guys, and I have to admit
that I take advantage of that.
c. Sometimes it’s tempting to become a person who
takes advantage of guys, but I also know that modesty
is expected of me.
5. When you’re hanging out
with your guy friends, what does the conversation
center on?
a. Flirty banter
b. Not too different from your girlfriends — minus the
shopping
c. A little bit of both — flirtatiousness and casual
conversation
6. You and your date for the
homecoming dance have different ideas about
what is and isn’t classified as dancing. Let’s just say
your mom wouldn’t approve of his way. You
a. are a little confused, but follow his lead. You imitate
the other girls on the dance floor who don’t seem to
mind it at all.
b. tell him to find another partner. You really want to
dance, but not like that.
c. decide that this is how dances are.
7. What do you spend the
most time trying to improve about yourself?
a. Hair, makeup, clothing, body
b. Character
c. Um, that’s convicting. I should focus more on my
character, but I probably spend more time on my
appearance.
8. You drop your pencil on
the floor at school, and you’re wearing a new V-neck
sweater. You
a. bend over at the waist and give the class a nice view
of your bust.
b. bend over at the waist, holding your shirt in place,
making sure nothing inappropriate shows.
c. aren’t sure what you’d do, but have probably done
both.
Scoring
1. a=3, b=1, c=2
2. a=2, b=3, c=1
3. a=2, b=3, c=1
4. a=1, b=3, c=2
5. a=3, b=1, c=2
6. a=2, b=1, c=3
7. a=3, b=1, c=2
8. a=3, b=1, c=2
Under 12 points
You have a grasp of modesty at its best. Your behavior
can be commended. Stay aware of those issues so
you’ll continue growing into a godly woman.
12-20 points
You want to honor God, but when it comes to modesty
you don’t always know how or why to be modest. Your
heart is right. Continue seeking God with those issues
and He’ll bring you understanding.
More than 20 points
Whether you’re aware of it or not, your behavior and
attitude in the area of modesty doesn’t always honor
God. Think about your motives for your behavior. Then
pray that you’d desire righteous living.
