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Hate Your Body?


looking in mirrorCircle the statements that sound most like you.

[EAR] I’m not absolutely gorgeous, but I’m happy with the way I look.
[LIPS] I’ve tried numerous diets.
[EYES] It’s hard to take a compliment, but I try to say thank you.
[LIPS] I desperately want my little belly rolls to disappear, so I do nearly 300 sit-ups every day.
[EAR] Diets are pointless. I’d rather eat healthy.
[LIPS] I want a nose job as soon as I graduate from high school.
[EAR] I love comfy clothes and don’t worry much about how my body looks.
[EYES] I like to find clothes that fit right for my body type.
[LIPS] I don’t leave the house without wearing makeup.
[EAR] I don’t mind changing my clothes in front of other girls.
[EYES] I feel guilty after chowing down on a bunch of cookies. I don’t want to get fat.
[EAR] When I dress up to go out, I can look at myself in the mirror and say, “Wow, you look good tonight!”
[EYES] I want to lose 5 pounds soon, so I run three times a week.
[EYES] Going to the beach makes me wish I’d run a few more miles.
[LIPS] When I look at magazines, I wish my body looked more like those Hollywood actresses.
[LIPS] The only time I felt pretty was when I was a junior bridesmaid in my cousin’s wedding.
[EAR] I don’t worry about what I look like when I’m talking to my crush.
[EYES] I wish I were a different size.

Scoring:
Give yourself 1 point for every [EAR], 2 points for every [EYES], and 3 points for every [LIPS].

[EAR] Unusually Confident
13 points and under
Verse to ponder: 1 Samuel 16:7
You have a healthy body image and rarely think negatively about your body. You aren’t caught up in a quest to attain perfection. Be aware of your body, and make good health a priority. Make sure to praise God for the way He made you, and continue to view your body the way God views it. Also, encourage your friends by valuing their inner beauty and helping them to foster healthy perceptions of their bodies.

[EYES] Typical Insecurities
14 to 20 points
Verses to ponder: 1 Peter 3:3-4
Loving your body is sometimes a struggle. For the most part, you don’t hate it, but you can get frustrated at your imperfections. Try to reflect on what you do like about your body, and remember that it is only temporary. Having a healthy body is important, but don’t forget to value your spiritual health even more.

[LIPS] Lack of Self-Confidence
21 points or more
Verses to ponder: Psalm 139:13-18
Consider talking to an older Christian woman about your insecurities. Many women have felt the way you do about their bodies at some point, and likely she’ll understand. The way you see your body isn’t the way God views you. He’s your Creator, and everything He made is good. Pray for strength to see yourself the way God does.

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This article appeared in Brio magazine in August 2006. Copyright © 2006 Rebecca Mayer. All rights reserved. International copyright secured.

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