I can honestly say that my two best friends are my sisters, Charyl
and Myra. Even though we’re now 24, 21 and 19, we still like to do
fun things together, from window-shopping to performing ice skating
routines on our Rollerblades!
Sure,
we’re good friends now, but it wasn’t always that way. It took prayer,
forgiveness and a lot of quality time to build lasting friendships.
So, what are you waiting for? Here are 20 super-fun activities that will
help you become better friends with your sister. And hey, if you
don’t have a biological sister, grab a Brio Sis or another sister
in Christ!
1. Bed and Breakfast
Have a slumber party just for your sister! If you both can’t fit into one
bed, take your sleeping bags into one of your rooms. But don’t go
to sleep right away! Talk about your day, tell each other your dreams
or tell scary stories.
2. Dance Party
This is
one of my favorites! Turn up your sister’s favorite CD, and make up
crazy dances as you move to the music. For my sisters and me, this
means doing the "Push Lawn Mower" dance to Plus One’s new
release!
3. Pamper Parlor
Set
aside a Saturday night to really clean up before Sunday morning
church. Join your sister for a pedicure, manicure and facial while you
watch a movie or listen to your favorite CD. Hey, maybe your sister
will share her nail polish collection with you.
4. Fun Foods
Grab
your sister and make your favorite snack! Whether you crave
something salty or sweet, this is a tasty activity that both of you can
enjoy. One Sunday afternoon my sisters and I ate an entire bowl of
cookie dough. Yum!
5. Game Night
Play
your favorite board game together. For my sisters and me, this
involves trying to win the most dates with Zack and Slater in the
"Saved by the Bell" board game.
6. Would You
Rather?
This is a crazy game that you and your
sister can play anywhere you go. By asking your sister a "would you
rather" question, you’ll learn more about her and have fun at the
same time. For example, would you rather have purple ears or a
purple nose?
7. Bring Back Barbie
Remember what you and your sister loved to play with when you
were really little? Well, do it again! So what if you’re in high school?
You can still play Barbie city!
8. Karaoke Night
Have you and your sister always wanted to form the newest
Christian singing group? Now’s your chance to practice. Put in your
favorite CD and grab your hairbrush (to use as a microphone, silly!)
and have a blast.
9. Go for the Gold
You don’t have to wait for another Olympic Games
to roll around. Have your own competition. My sisters and I have
performed gymnastics during the summer games in our own
backyard. With only three competitors, it’s not hard to win a medal!
10. Be a Good Sport
Pick an activity that you and your sister enjoy — maybe tennis,
basketball, racquetball or volleyball. Do it together, and it will be
much more fun.
11. Free Shopping
Spree
Without buying anything, go to a
department store and try on ridiculous clothes. Weird prom dresses
are fun! Take a camera into the dressing room, and turn it into your
own photo shoot.
12. Two Thumbs Up
Go to the movies! Pick one that you both want to
see and get good seats. You can even share a bag of your favorite
candy.
13. Swap Shirts
Trade clothes for a day! Shop through your sister’s closet, and let her
look through yours. If you agree to swap, it’s amazing how much fun
it can be!
14. An Award-Winning
Performance
You and your sister could be stars in
your next home video. Include your mom or dad as the camera
operator. This home movie will keep you laughing for years to
come!
15. Sister of the
Bride
So you might not marry for another 10 years,
but it’s never too early to dream! Brainstorm wedding dress and
ceremony ideas with your sister over a bowl of popcorn. Write
down good ideas for future reference.
16. Gourmet Goulash
Join your sister in making a nice appreciation dinner for your parents.
As you grow close to your sister, you may even realize just how
cool your parents are! So show them your gratitude.
17. Number One Fan
Attend your sister’s sport, musical or art events.
Don’t just go and hide behind your mom. Make a sign that says,
"Go, (your sister’s name here)," and cheer for her loudly throughout
the entire event.
18. Be a Secret Sister
Write little encouragement notes to your sister, and
post them where she’ll see them. Her pillow or the bathroom mirror
would work great. Secret messages are a fun way to make her
smile.
19. Serving Sisters
Volunteer to cook at a soup kitchen or to ring a Salvation Army bell
during the holidays. This creates an opportunity to spend time with
your sister as you serve God together.
20. Say a Little Prayer for
Her
When you and your sister have prayer
concerns, what better activity to engage in than one that invites
Jesus along? Pray for the needs on your heart and your
relationship. God will do neat things if you let Him!
Go ahead; begin to cultivate a friendship with your sister. I guarantee
that there will be many times you’ll want her close by. Begin now to
get to know your sister and love her as God loves you. A sister
can be a joy!