What bugs you about the opposite sex?
“Girls generally ask too many questions. It’s annoying. Don’t feel like you have to talk all the time to keep the conversation going. I enjoy talking with a smart girl who can hold her side of the conversation but doesn’t simply talk all the time.” —Vasia Bratchuk, 14

What’s your advice to girls?
“Please don’t beat around the bush. Sometimes girls just expect us to know what they’re thinking regarding a friendship. When I like a girl, I’ll befriend her, talk to her a lot and pay more attention to her.” —Drew Black, 15

What qualities are important to you in a relationship?
“A girl who’s a good Christian is important to me. She’s kind and friendly, reads her Bible and doesn’t do all the talking.” —Steven Byun, 14

What do you look for in a relationship with a girl?
“I’d look for a Christian girl who has the same beliefs as I do—someone I can talk with and share my thoughts with. I want to be able to share with her what God is teaching me and how He’s helping me grow.” —Bryan Jarboe, 14

What do you wish girls understood about you?
“I’m sometimes different at home than I am at school. I’m not perfect. Don’t expect too much from me.” —Billy Ahn, 15

Why do guys spit?
“Because we don’t want to swallow it. And also . . . it’s kind of a cultural thing—you know, like hitting each other. It’s camaraderie; just part of acting tough.” —Cam Harder,15

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